Are you seeing someone these days? Does her presence in your life bring a whirlwind of emotions in your heart? Are you serious for her? Do you wish to take her out for a date? Well if you have a big ‘Yes’ as an answer for all these questions, then we are here to help you with the dating tips that a boy should follow while dating with his girlfriend.
Before asking her out for a date:-
If you are in love with someone but you haven’t proposed her yet, it is the high time you ask her out for a date. Following are the tips that you can follow while asking a girl out for date:-
1. Let Her Gel Well With Yourself First:-
If you are not very close with the girl and if you both haven’t been frank with each other yet, you should first let the girl gel well with yourself by talking with her and giving her enough time to guess your love for her. Talk with her about her interests, likes, dislikes and simply every other such topic and she will soon get frank with you.
2. Stop Being a Stalker:-
A stalker is someone who keeps clinging to a person in order to attain an obsessive attention. If you are proposing a girl again and again despite of her rejecting your proposals again and again, you are surely being a stalker and spoiling your image in her eyes. Girls never date with a stalker, they date with gentlemen instead.
3. Let Her Feel Secure with yourself:-
A girl can surely think of going on a date with you if you can make her feel comfortable and secure with yourself. If she watches you with an eye full of sarcasm, she won’t be an easy job for you. So first, we would advise you to work on your image and let her feel secure with yourself so that she can trust you enough for a date.
4. Work on Your Chemistry with Each Other:-
To be an ideal date for your girl, you need to have a good chemistry with each other first. Let her feel that you are a perfectly compatible material for every girl so that she may think more about you. Be a cool cat and let her friends talk about this coolness because every girl would like being a handsome hulk’s girlfriend.
5. Finally ask her out for a date:-
Make sure that she does n’t takes you as a doltish fellow and finally ask her out for a date. Remember to be true and honest while expressing your feelings and just ask her out. Remember not to tremble or shiver while doing so. Be a man and do it like a man. She is not going to bite you if you ask her out for a date. It’s quite normal.
Tips to follow on a date:-
Now when your girl gets agreed for a date, make yourself prepared in advance for the date. Make the necessary preparations so that this date becomes the best date of her and your life. Here are some tips that needs to be followed on a date:-
1. Be prepared for everything in advance:-
First of all, choose a right place for your date. If should neither be very close and nor be very far from her living place. You should make all the necessary arrangements in advance. The dating place should be perfectly decorated and it is better if you make some arrangements for the music also. It is better if you go yourself to pick up the girl from her house. Besides this, you should dress nicely and you should be in time. Everything should be planned in a perfect manner. You should have a plan ‘B’ for every plan ‘A’ in your list of things to be done. You should be careful about hygiene and surroundings of the dating place as well.
2. Remember, be formal with your words:-
Words like ‘May I’, ‘Could I’, ‘Would you please’ etc. sound more polite than the other ones. It is better if you make use of these formal words with your date so that she may get impressed with your talking style and manners also. You should be polite enough to impress the girl when you take her for a date so that she may feel like a princess in real life.
3. be careful about every impression you leave:-
True is when they say ‘First impression is the last impression’ and if you make hazards with your date, this is going to leave an ever-lasting impression on the girl as well as on you. You should thus be careful about every impression you leave on your counterpart’s heart. Besides this, you should take care of her every like and dislike making her feel comfortable and enjoying with yourself.
4. Don’t be rude with the waiter:-
Some guys are habitual of being rude with the waiter and this really leaves a negative kind of impression on girls. You should never be rude with the waiter and you should never indulge in a negative conversation with him if you wish to leave an ever-lasting impression on your girlfriend. Besides this, you should never go drunk on a date. Stay away from smoking as well if you can do so. Treat her like a lady and be a perfect gentleman. Watch out your words while speaking.
5. Simply relax and converse:-
When you both are sitting face to face with each other or adjacent to each other, simply relax and converse with each other. Begin from any small topic and take your conversation further while still being very much polite. Ask her to make an order while passing her the menu if it is a restaurant or simply begin with a coffee asking her about the coffee of her choice.
6. Pass on compliments:-
Every girl likes compliments and I am sure that same would be the case with your choice as well. Compliments like ‘You can fix anything’, ‘I love the way you are driven towards your career’, ‘you are the best girl I have ever met’, ‘you can fix anything’ etc. can really make a girl feel special and last but not the least, don’t ever forget to express your love/liking for your date with some special quote or words.
7. Caress and touch her feet with yours:-
This is simply the best part of a date and even I have done it several times with my girlfriend. When you find no topic to talk about, just start praising the beauty of glasses, tables, chairs and everything else around. Now touch the girl’s feet with your bare feet. Keep caressing and touching her feet in the same way without even uttering a word. This will add a whirlwind of romance and love to your life.
8. Say good bye with a kiss:-
While departing from each other, don’t forget to say good bye with a kiss. It if better if you drop her home in your own personal vehicle. Ask her when you can meet again in a flirty manner and if she passes a smile, this means that she has fallen in true love with you.