Gone are the days when texting was done only through messaging services like SMS and MMS and instead the contemporary time is a time of social networking websites like twitter, facebook, snapchat and instagram etc. along with the applications like Whatsapp messenger and facebook messenger etc. which enable a person to text the other online. These applications prove to be a boon for your love life with cheap services like testing, video-calling and attachment sharing etc. If you wish to text your girlfriend following any of the available approaches, following are the tips that you can follow while doing so:-
1. Choose Your Words and Platform wisely:-
First and foremost comes the choice of words. Choose your words wisely and begin your message with a word like ‘bae’ or ‘dear’ so as to make your girlfriend feel special. Now add the body of the message and use all sorts of polite words to make your girlfriend feel blessed to have you. The more wisely you choose words, the more are the chances that she will feel blessed to have you.
2. Add Feelings to Your Words with Stickers and Emojis:-
Contemporary world is the world of smart phones and these phones enable you to send your text messages with Emojis and stickers. Stickers and Emojis enable you to share your feelings in a better and more expressed way. For example, sending a sticker with a picture of heart written ‘I love you’ on it would be more expressive than to simply say ‘I love you’.
3. Add a Voice/Image Attachment for Better Expression of Emotions:-
Some modern day messengers and messaging applications like Whatsapp, facebook messenger etc. also enable you to send a voice/image attachment with the text message. By adding a voice attachment with the message, you can add a sort of appeal to it. For example, when you are texting your girlfriend with a good night message, it would be better if you record an ‘Ummah’ in your own voice to send as an attachment with the message.
4. Research Quotes While Texting For A Special Occasion:-
If you are texting your girlfriend for some special occasion like her birthday or Rose day/valentine day etc., it would be better if you research some love quotes or other such occasional quotes first. Adding these quotes to your message makes it look more attractive and appealing. This would give your girlfriend an idea that you have spent time in writing that message and she would feel special like this.
5. Remember Not To Spoil Her Mood:-
Remember not to spoil her mood with your message. I had a friend who was habitual of sending ‘hmm’ as a reply for most of his messages. When he did the same with his girlfriend, she thought that he was taking her as a formality and she had a break-up with him. You should not do this at all.
6. Keep in Watch the Length of Your Message: –
Last but not the least; keep in watch the length of your message. Keep your messages short in length. Your message should be texted in such a way that it carries more feelings and fewer words. You can also use the short forms of words while texting like ‘ty’ for thank you and ‘OMG’ for ‘Oh my god’. But remember not to create your own abbreviations as your girlfriend might not be aware of these. If you have much to say, make a phone call instead but a text message looks better when it is not too long to be read.